Do you have anything in your life that you want to change? Have you tried changing it, only to fall flat on your face time and time again? I have. A lot. It’s pretty easy for me to start playing the victim and blame all of my shortcomings on someone or something else. The truth is, if we sit and wait for someone to do for us what we can only do for ourselves, we’ll be sitting forever. We’ll never change. We’ll never become better men, better husbands, better fathers, and better friends. Becoming a better man doesn’t just happen by accident. As John C. Maxwell once said: “An unintentional life accepts everything and does nothing. An intentional life embraces only the things that will add to the mission of significance.”